Singleness & Dating

  • Sexual Sin and Grace

    Sexual Sin and God’s Grace | What to Do When You Keep Messing Up

    In the midst of the guilt, shame and pain of sexual sins, painful thoughts fill my mind, “I can’t believe I sinned… again. Does God hate me for my addictions? Will I ever find freedom?” If you are struggling with sexual sin today, I’ve been in your shoes. I’ve spent a lot of time talking […] Read more…

  • Engaged & Waiting

    Engaged and Not Having Sex | The Fight for Purity

    In four months I can freely have sex with my husband whenever we want, but for now, we can’t. We’re engaged and waiting. Deciding to honor God in purity, my fiancé and I are refraining from experiencing sexual intimacy. This isn’t easy. In fact, waiting is hard. We’ve messed up and have pushed the boundaries […] Read more…


  • For the Girl Who Was Raped |

    For the College Freshman Girl Who Was Raped

    I’ve been there. I was a college freshman who was lost searching for what would give me an identity. What would give me hope. What would make me feel loved. As a college student, one desires to fit in and find her place and to meet a guy. At least, that is what I wanted. Read more…

  • Why follow God in college?

    Why Follow God in College?

    The transition from high school to college can decide who you are, who you will become, and who you will follow. You must decide now, before you enter college, if you’re going to follow God in college. With the start of the new semester, many women will leave home and move to a new place […] Read more…

Bible Study

  • Freedom from Porn for Women

    FREEDOM From Porn for Women | YouVersion Bible Reading Plan

    Addicted to pornography? Desiring freedom but feeling alone? Looking for a new devotional? If you answered yes to any of these questions, this new and FREE resource is for you. This inspiring reading plan on is for women that struggle with pornography and seek FREEDOM. God has created each of us with a desire […] Read more…

  • How to Heal from Sexual Abuse _

    How to Heal from Sexual Abuse

    Five years ago I thought I would never heal from the rape I experienced my freshman year of college. My nights were filled with tears and my days were filled with doubts. Why did this happen? Does God allow rape? (Check out the answer to this question on With countless unanswered questions and tears […] Read more…

Relationship With Jesus

  • Jesus Loves Porn Addicts _

    Jesus Loves Porn Addicts

    Jesus loves people who watch porn. Jesus even loves porn stars. Yes, Jesus loves both of these groups of people. No matter what, His love for them will never change. Why is this? Because Jesus came to save the broken, the lost, and the hurting. While on earth, Jesus spent most of His time with […] Read more…

  • Instant Intimacy _

    Instant Intimacy: When one click, swipe or like isn’t enough.

    Desiring to feel loved and beautiful, I downloaded Tinder and uploaded my cutest selfie. Sick of being single and waiting on God’s perfect timing, I wanted to take things into my own hands. I wanted control over my dating life. Impatient and not trusting God, I began the quest for a man. Swiping right if […] Read more…

Your Story

  • Our stories are powerful _

    Will God use my story in a powerful way?

    Do you believe that your story is powerful? Maybe you were saved at a young age and you fear your story isn’t as powerful as others. Or maybe just like me, you struggle believing that God could use your broken past for his good. I want to share with you that no matter your story, […] Read more…

  • Sexually Abused in College, Now What?

    Sexually Abused in College – Now What?

    My time in college was nothing like what I planned. I entered college thinking I was a Christian. I believed in God, but I didn’t know Him. I didn’t know His heart, His character or that He was the only one who could satisfy the longing in my heart to be loved. Instead, I thought […] Read more…


  • Does God allow rape? _

    Does God Allow Rape? | Guest Post on

    Have you ever wondered if God allows rape? As a victim of rape, I thought the rape was my fault. I did not fully understand that I was experiencing the result of sin until years later. No matter the reason for the rape, it still wounded me deeply. Because of my hurt and pain, I […] Read more…

  • 3 Reasons Women's Ministries Need to be Authentic, Vulnerable & Bold

    3 Reasons Women’s Ministries Need to be Authentic, Vulnerable & Bold

    “Joy, you are so vulnerable and so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I could never be as bold as you to freely talk about these issues.” – Women’s Minister That was the response I got from a women’s minister as I talked about the growing epidemic of porn addiction for women. […] Read more…